Today I am going to explain to you about Jealousy when it comes to relationships of ANY kind. As many as you know I am currently in a relationship with the love of my life and that I have known for about a decade now! HOLY COW right! lol Anyways, when it comes to jealousy, honestly to be blunt, way back when I first started this relationship, I did get jealous on quite a few things. Things like "pictures" and etc.. but besides that, from what I have been through, trust plays a HUGE I mean HUGE role in it. When there is no trust, of course you would get jealous so quick on even the smallest things imaginable. I have so much trust with my current significant other that its crazy, so crazy is that anything "rational" he does I joke with him back and don't take offense. What I mean by rational, I mean where your boyfriend or girlfriend doesn't cheated to make you jealous. Hell Nah!
So remember when there is no TRUST in any type of relationship, everything that could go wrong in a relationship will go wrong. Jealousy is derived from trust issues. If you are having trust issues with your partner or are constantly "snooping" around in their Facebook, snooping around in their phone, IF they given you their account info, that is called trust issues my dear.
My advice from all this post, is for you to keep your jealousy to a minimum, trust your partner, if something is bothering you talk it out with your partner, don't keep quiet and then blow up on them during an argument you guys are in that doesn't even pertain to that problem that is bothering you to making yourself "right" in that argument.
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